Friday, December 14, 2012
Prayer for Sandy Hook Elementary
I grew up in a sleepy little town like Newtown, Connecticut. The tranquility of such a place leads you to have a "it will never happen to me" mentality. Having your safety violated in such a profound way is a deep wound only God can heal. The community must be in shock and horror.
I also know the pain of unexpectedly losing a young child. My daughter,Madison Zoƫ, died at age 3 years 10 months and 1 day. It has been 11 years, but there isn't a day that passes that I don't miss her.
When I prayed this morning, I asked God to pass a message to Madison. I hope these heartfelt words can bring a little comfort to those affected by this evil tragedy . I know it is unspeakable pain which only God can heal. He once told me when I was angry with Him for taking Madison, that He knew the same pain. He gave His Son, Jesus Christ, for us all to have eternal life. My words won't take away the pain, but maybe they can bring a glimmer hope.
Madison:
You have lots of new kids and a few nice teachers to help welcome into Heaven today. I bet there is a huge party. You probably volunteered to be their tour guide since you love to explore. Whisper to Jesus to send comfort to their families like he continually does for me when I miss you, my sweet girl. Mommy loves you and one day when God says it's time, I'll be in Heaven with you. Remind your new friends that soon their mommies, daddies, brothers, sisters, cousins, other families and friends can join them too. Everyone who has King Jesus as Lord of their hearts will soon come. And not to worry, let them know many people like your Mommy are spreading the good news about Jesus. I'm sure with all our prayers and preaching, all their loved ones will go to Heaven. Then there will be another celebration. Until that time comes, I know you will help them have so much fun. I can't wait to meet all your friends and let you show me around. I am trying to imagine how beautiful it is. I know you have a favorite spot, maybe near a big tree that overlooks a gentle river. I want to lay under that tree with you when I get there!
Hugs, love, and kisses,
Mommy
Thursday, December 13, 2012
No Longer Wounded is Moving to WORDPRESS!!
My new website is:
http://nolongerwounded.wordpress.com
Thank you for your support and encouragement! :)
Cherished Joy
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
It's time to speak!
During my quiet time with the Lord today. I read Psalm 12 and Proverbs 12. I was lead to do so since today is 12/12/12. :)
Reading those verses took me back to the wicked things which happened to me in the Air Force. But God promises to keep me safe from the wicked and overthrow the wicked. I know my novel, which is based on actual events, needs to be told. It will bring healing and awareness to many. Unfortunately, military sexual assault and harassment is an all to common occurance which is seldom spoken about.
Despite the horror I survived, I still cherish the time I served in the military. The Air Force isn't evil, yet there is evil within the Air Force. It is time for that to change! I will do my part by telling my story. The rest is up to our government leaders.
Monday, December 10, 2012
Walls
As I was taking my puppies on their morning walk, we passed by a condo where there is a bigger dog who we never see but always hear. He barks loud and ferociously. This makes my little boy bark back in a defensive way and my little girl gets scared and leaps for my arms.
I thought about this dog and how he is enclosed by his fence. I've never seen him out. It made me reflect back on a quote I love. "Sometimes we put up walls. Not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to knock them down." The dog had no control over his surroundings and enclosed atmosphere, but the people around us do.
I've found in my experience working with troubled youth that most people who put up walls want you to tear them down. But first they need to know you really care. There are so many hurting people in this world who find it simpler to build walls than to reach out for help. Sometimes we must reach in to them.
Is there anyone in your world that you can reach today?
Thursday, December 6, 2012
Don't give your crown to the fools!!
He said "All ladies must read this so that they stop giving their crowns to the fools."
That goes out to the gentlemen too! Our bodies our the temple of God! Holy and scared. Let's start treasuring ourselves as God does instead of being used and abused by those enslaved by sexual sin. Much prayer is needed in this area! God bless you all!
Written by Irene Gladu
Sex is NOT love. Love is not sex. You can have sex and not be in love. You can be in love and not engage in sex. A man/woman may hate you and still have sex with you. Be wise.
Ladies, using sex to manipulate a man will eventually fail. It is self-deception to think that giving him sex will make him love you. True Love will never force you to engage in sex. A man who does
Love will never shame or degrade you. If you have made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy this man, now is the time to re-assess your relationship and build it on the right foundation. If he gets married to you because ‘the sex is good’, it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him get married to you because he loves you, honors you, feels a strong emotional, mental and spiritual connection with you and wants you to spend the rest of his life with you.
THINK ABOUT.THIS VERY SERIOUSLY..
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
Love Your Neighbor as Yourself :/
Mark 12:30-31 NIV
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no commandment greater than these.”
The other day as I was walking my dogs, I got a test in the greatest commandment of all! We often hear Mark 12:30-31 proclaimed as the greatest commandment of all. It is even declared in the Bible that it is. The first part is easy. Love God. Loving Someone who gave His Son's life to save us is pretty easy. After all, He loved us first and He loves us unconditionally. It's a no-brainer.
But then there's that pesky second part. Love your neighbor as yourself. First, we must accept Christ's love, see ourselves as He does, then we love ourselves as Christ intended. Yet, the neighbor part is still there. Some neighbors are easy to love. I have one that waters my plants when I'm away and even calls if something seems suspicious. He's great and easy to love. Yet, he's not my only neighbor. I have many because I live in a townhome community. They are everywhere, hundreds of them, so I have many opportunities to show my love.
Back to the dog walk, my little boy dog is zealous. As his mom, I can tolerate him and love him despite the belief he has that he owns the entire common grounds on the property. I cannot get him to understand that not every tree and bush is his personal property. Most of my neighbors think a squeaking 5 pound Chihuahua is cute, especially when I pick him up and cover his mouth with him still trying to yap. It provides comic relief to the dog owners with large breeds, especially the ones with German Sheppards and such. They respect my dog's passion, but not the lady in the middle unit. On no! She had a very different take on us! My dog started yapping and I immediately grabbed him to ease the tension as I always do. But she started yelling and swearing. She took the Lord's name in vain and said a few words I hadn't heard since I worked in the inner city with juvenile delinquents. At first, I was shocked and caught off guard since I live in a peaceful community. I had a choice to make right then. I could either get offended and lash out or realize this woman was really hurting and it had nothing to do with me or my dog.
I chose to remain calm and remember Mark 12:31. Seeing her temperament, I knew I couldn't just have a cup of coffee and chat with this lady. Instead I prayed, I asked the Lord to show me what to do to help her and He did. He instructed me to mail her a card, from Him not me. In the moment I could feel His pain when she took His name in vain. I felt her pain. I did as He asked. I handwrote a card describing the Lord's pain that she was hurting and reassured her He was there and He loves her and will help her through these troubled times. I enclosed a teaching cd entitled "You are God's Masterpiece" from my pastor and a invitation card to attend my church. Then as God requested I mailed it off. I do not know how this lady responded to my note. She may not have even opened it. But the point is, I followed God's instructions. I did what He asked. He will do the rest. I use to get all wrapped up in wanting to know every little detail of God's plan. But now, I see that's not my place. God asked me to plant a seed for Him. He'll take it from here. If He needs my help again, He'll ask. It was hard to love the unlovable neighbor but I did by asking God to lead me. I have learned usually the ones who come across the most unlovable, need our love the most.
Have you loved your neighbor today? Imagine if we all did a little to show God's love, what a big impact that could have in our neighborhoods! J
Friday, November 30, 2012
We are the hands and feet of Jesus not just typing fingers! :)
We are the hands and feet of Jesus not just typing fingers! :)
4And when, as I recall your tears, I yearn to see you so that I may be filled with joy.
When we read verse 3 he says 3I thank God Whom I worship with a pure conscience, [a]in the spirit of my fathers, when without ceasing I remember you night and day in my prayers.
We can see Timothy was very dear to Paul. Paul prayed for Timothy night and day. He thanked God for him! In these two verses Paul sets the standard for Christian friendship. He shows us how to be a good friend in just two verses.
Writing encouraging letters was not good enough for the Apostle Paul. He longed to wipe tears from his dear friend Timothy. He wanted to have face to face genuine fellowship. That brought him joy. He wanted to be there, really be there, in person for his dear friend!
Please my fellow ministers! Do not get so consumed that we disregard those in front of our very eyes who need a touch, prayer, or hug! Technology is wonderful! It allows us to reach the masses in minimal time! However, there is no substitute to face to face fellowship, prayer, or communication. Don’t' avoid your friend or neighbor that is right beside you because you are so consumed with writing your an inspiring blog. in hopes of "saving the world". Make time for both. It's the human touch that will make all the difference.
Today, I send out a prayer request to some dear friends and prayer warriors. For several months I have been going through a fiery trail. Today, I declared that enough is enough! I cried out to the Lord! I prayed the situation would end and the lady coming against me (the enemy) would be blessed and her heart turned to God. All for His glory! A dear friend of mine, a wonderful minister, send a quick text back saying "I am praying". This is someone very dear to me, my best friend. Yet, am I her best friend? Our communication through this trail has been hit and miss (mainly miss). This is my iron which is supposed to sharpen me. I cry out to my Sister Friend "Help Sister I am drowning, I need you!” Do you hear me above the clicking of your keys blogging to sweet strangers? Will you get to me before I sink? Heeelllloooooo.....
I am not trying to condemn my sweet friend! By no means. This miscommunication today showed us both that the Apostle Paul had it right! Long to be with your dear friend. Call me and pray for me. Better yet, drive over and hold my hand and wipe my tears as we pray. Then give me a big hug!
Remember: We are the hands and feet of Jesus not just typing fingers! :)
Love and Healing!
Abra Abra Cadabra
Abra-abra-cadabra
I want to reach out and grab ya
Abra-abra-cadabra
Abracadabra
I could sing that for hours on end.
First, let me say I have no idea of the message The Steve Miller Band wanted to convey with this catchy hit. (Obviously sexual temptation may be a good guess). But today as I heard this popular 80s song God showed me that sin works just like the lyrics of the song. It can indeed reach out and grab ya as you’re all mesmerized by its appeal, the way it looks, feels, or sounds. And it will take you down in flames...... as the song states:
Every time you call my name
I heat up like a burnin' flame
Burnin' flame full of desire
Kiss me baby, let the fire get higher
Yet there is HOPE! In 1 Corinthians 10:13 God promised a way out of temptation. And no matter if you messed up once or a million times, God mercies are new every morning! (Lamentations 3:22-23) He is always willing to forgive. So anyday can be your new start! Praise God for His incomprehensible Greatness!!!!
Thank you Jesus for giving me this revelation to share with others.
1 Corinthians 10:13AMP
For no temptation (no trial regarded as enticing to sin), [no matter how it comes or where it leads] has overtaken you and laid hold on you that is not common to man [that is, no temptation or trial has come to you that is beyond human resistance and that is not adjusted and adapted and belonging to human experience, and such as man can bear]. But God is faithful [to His Word and to His compassionate nature], and He [can be trusted] not to let you be tempted and tried and assayed beyond your ability and strength of resistance and power to endure, but with the temptation He will [always] also provide the way out (the means of escape to a landing place), that you may be capable and strong and powerful to bear up under it patiently.
Lamentations 3:22-23 NIV
22 Because of the LORD’s great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
Thursday, November 29, 2012
Watch Out For "Falling Blessings"
Happy Birthday Madison!
A Letter to my mother
A Letter to my mother
Forgiveness is Power!
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Words of Wisdom from Grandma Alice Jane
This morning I watched a sermon on DVD from the 2007 Women's conference which Mike's grandmother, Alice Jane Schaffer Blthye, preached. I had the honor of meeting Alice Jane this summer on her 98th birthday. We are pictured here as she pulled me into her lap and gave me a bear hug. The world needs more Alice Janes! I pray that God uses me like he did Alice Jane and I can carry on her legacy once her time on earth is up. As Mike and I start enmeshing our families and begin our journey toward marriage it makes my heart smile to know I will become a part of such an anointed family. God
is so good!
One statement Alice Jane made during her sermon touched me. She said Jesus died for us and He needs us to live for him. God stopped me right there and showed me that means to carry out His works...to finish what Jesus started.
I will leave you with a few of Alice Jane's closing thoughts to ponder:
~Everything God gives us, He plans for us to give away.
~God has given us everything we have, now what are we going to give Him?
~There is so much fussing and fighting in churches today, it's a sin...God says love your brothers and sisters. Love, forgive, give to one another...
~God is waiting on the church to rise up and be the arm that delivers this world. He is depending and counting on us.
Which way should I go???
I have a few major decisions to make in my life; serious, life altering decisions. These decisions affect several people I love so I do not take them lightly. During my morning quite time I prayed about these upcoming decisions and decided to reread Proverbs 3:5-6. But then went ahead and read the entire chapter for more clarification. Verse 7 appealed to me.
Proverbs 3:5-7 in the Amplified Bible reads:
Lean on, trust in, and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind and do not rely on your own understanding. In all of your ways know, recognize, and acknowledge Him, and He will direct and make straight and plain your paths. Be not wise in your own eyes; reverently fear and worship the Lord and turn entirely away from evil.
I read the commentary written by Joyce Meyer in my Bible. She stated she believes what God meant when He said in verse 7 "Be not wise in your own eyes" was "Do not even think that you can run your life and do a good job without My help and direction!"
Then I got some revelation. God's guidance isn't just a suggestion, it is and should be my road map, the standard, the only way. I have all too often did things my way and ended up with 2nd or 3rd best. Sometimes heartache and pain. But not anymore. I'm giving up. I'm not a navigator. God is!
Then I said this prayer which tremendously helped me and I hope it helps you as well:
Thank You Lord! Thank You that You run my life! That You are in control! I give You absolute authority over me, my future, and all decisions concerning me! Show me the path You've chosen for me. Make it crystal clear so I can not mess up Your plans for my life. I am at peace knowing You are in charge. I can not live an abundant life without You! Thank You for your guidance and provision. May I glorify You all my days! I LOVE YOU!!! <3
Amen!
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Marriage and Mismatched Socks
In many ways, God made us just like the socks. He designed a spouse for each of us. But it will come at His appointed time. We can go through life and "force" our match like with socks. But it's not going to "feel" right or be designed the way God intended. Bottom line, it's not God's best. So just as I take special care of my "singles" on the sock shelf until their ideal mate comes along; God will take care of us until our special mate comes along!
Now the Lord God said, It is not good (sufficient, satisfactory) that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper meet (suitable, adapted, complementary) for him.Genesis 2:18 AMP
not one will lack her mate. For it is his mouth that has given the order, and his Spirit will gather them together.Isaiah 34:16 NIV |